BRIDEZILLAS have feelings too!

I have noticed a lot of people are pretty quick to throw out the word BRIDEZILLA when a bride is being picky about something. I personally would be devastated if someone said that to me! Brides spend so much time planning their weddings and having every detail organized, that when something doesn't work out, could you honestly blame them for being upset?

Of course there are extreme cases where brides have asked her bridesmaids to carry out ridiculous tasks such as loosing 30 pounds for her wedding so you look good in her pictures, or telling each bridesmaid that they have to buy a $300 dress that looks horrible on them. That is just a bride being a flat out bitch, no bridezilla label necessary!

Next time you see a bitching bride, think twice before lashing out with the big BRIDEZILLA comment. It can be very hurtful, unless of course the bride has dubbed herself a Bridezilla, then it becomes free game for anyone to throw that word out there.

With all of these wedding shows cluttering up my DVR, I see a lot of situations where people are called a bridezilla, even though they have every reason in the world to be upset. One instance in particular was features on Whose Wedding is it Anyways? on the STYLE network. It was a bride's wedding day and she was stuffed into her gown and ready to walk down the aisle when her twin sister accidentally stepped on the dress and it ripped. MOMENTS BEFORE WALKING DOWN THE AISLE! Now I am sorry but if you don't get upset then you must either have a good Valium in you, or you're crazy! And just like clockwork, as soon as the bride got upset her sister created a huge scene calling her a bridezilla! Could you even imagine! I would have had a heart attack if I was that bride!

So, in the end. Bridezilla's have hearts too... Sometimes.